PEER

SUPPORT

During the COVID crisis as we are holding peer support groups via Zoom but access link will only be made available via contacting Rose.

An additional service for individuals residing in West Lancashire is available with Empower the Invisible Project who have been commissioned by the NHS to deliver additional support within 72 hours of receiving the referral. You can access this service by contacting your local Minds Matter team. The service consists of 1-1 support, group peer support and a bespoke 8 week course covering the topics of legacy issues caused by the trauma experienced as a victim of sexual abuse. Participants can choose a package that suits their individual needs and there is no fee for participants.

"Beyond lifechanging, I have not self harmed for many months now and I also go outside whereas before I just stayed at home in my room"  TK

"To be with people who know what you've been through and get it is better than any mental health intervention I have ever had"  JM

"If you had told me 3 months ago I wouldn't be using cannabis and alcohol to get through the day anymore I would have laughed at you but yet here I am and that's thanks to the peer group and for Danny & Rose being patient every single time I asked the same questions"  HL

"You have helped me so much on this journey and I will be forever thankful. Without this group and all you guys I would still be pointing the finger and blaming people when there is no-one to blame except those who done wrong"  KW

"I was at my lowest point, suicide was a realistic choice, but I found people who understand me and helped me through the darkest time of my adult life and I am genuinely happy for the first time in as long as I remember"  PC

"Better than any therapy that I've ever had...and I've had a lot"  AG

"What's good about Empower is the friendship and support and just knowing you can ask for help at any time helps me everyday.....I am not alone anymore" MB

"If you've been abused this is where you can get well, you can stay a week, a month or a year there's no rush and no expectations for a miraculous recovery and that takes the pressure of me to pretend I am doing ok when I'm actually not"  KB

"Its ok if you take one step forward and two steps back as it's taught tme hat recovery from this stuff isn't linear and doesn't follow a straight line and we all do it in different ways and different timescales and that it's ok because we are not all the same and our recovery is unique to us"  AM

"I can honestly say if it wasn't for group I wouldn't be doing the stuff I am doing and I now help others which is a great feeling"  KR

Beyond the Blade Lancashire Project with young people took place within the community in Preston using social distancing guidelines and was successful in building relationships with children, young people and their parents. This was a project in partnership with the Lancashire Police and Crime Commissioners Office and the Violence Reduction Network.

"You are both really nice and don't shout at me even when I do bad things or wind you up"  boy aged 8

"Nobody has bothered checking on us in lockdown to make sure things are ok at home except you"  girl aged 12

"I am glad I gave you my knife I didnt really like having it but my mates have them and I dont want to be called soft"  male aged 16

"They say if you run you are a coward but if I was in any aggro now and was scared I know its ok to run away from it"  boy aged 14

" My brother made me carry his knife and drugs  for him because he says I am getting ready to be in his crew but I told my mum like you said and now I don't have to do that stuff anymore so I am not scared"  girl aged 11

"Some old guy near us takes photos of us all the time so I am gonna tell my teacher cos my dad will just batter him and that wouldnt be right and he would go to prison and I would miss him so its best like you said to tell my teacher"  boy aged 11

" Everyone carries a weapon round here its for safety innit but I never thought what could happen if someone took it off me and used it to cut me up "girl aged 17

" You promised youd come back and you have cheers mate"  girl aged 12

" I proved them wrong like you said I went to school and now my grades are getting better, they (teachers) might think I am useless but you know that I'm not and I'm going to show all of them that I am good at something even when they say I'm not"  boy aged 15

"I don't like being part of that crew, but I like being part of your crew its fun and you do cool stuff with us"  boy aged 11

"I didn't think you would keep your promise to take us to Energi but you did so you are both sound and ok in my book"  boy aged 9

"They try and pressure us to have sex with them and stuff so I've told them if they come near me or touch me I will scream and tell the feds I didnt consent, they don't ask me anymore cos they know I mean it"  girl aged 14

" Things are pretty grim at home everyone is bugging each other and mum and her boyfriend are arguing more but at least we get out a few times a week to see both of you and my mates"  boy aged 16/girl aged 14

" Thanks for keeping your promise and doing stuff for us and asking us what we want to do instead of deciding for us like most adults do because they think they always know best"  boy aged 13

" The best bit is when you buy us all McDonalds or pizzas or open the boot of your car and we've got loads of snacks and stuff cos my mum cant afford to buy us that stuff often" boys aged 10 & 12

"This lockdown stuff is grim and it makes me scared but I'm not scared when your here which is cool"  girl aged 13

More details about what we do with the Violence Reduction Network can be found here 

Tackle Violence Together | Lancashire Violence Reduction Network (lancsvrn.co.uk)

caution

 

Training can still be provided online via Zoom and we have the capacity to deliver training events for up to 80 people.

We have successfully delivered training throughout the pandemic to a number of large organisations.

 

All our current peer support groups have now moved to online via Zoom which is accessible using a laptop, computer or mobile phone. We are currently providing  online meetings  and several 1-1 sessions online and face to face where it is more beneficial for the client to do so. We also  meet up regularly for socially distanced walks,  where current government restrictions allow because we recognise the importance for human connection. 

 

Access to these meetings is via a link which is available by contacting Rose.

 

zoom

Peer Support weekly face to face in several locations in Lancashire facilitated by Rose and Kirsty

 

1-1 Recovery Coaching 

 

Virtual support groups

Unlocked - in-reach project in custodial settings

 

All groups are accessible to males and females we don’t run single-sex groups 

 

Suicide Awareness short films 

 

Carpool Recovery with those who have accessed peer support and are now thriving and inspiring others.

 

Beyond the Blade Lancashire:  bespoke project working with young people at risk from knife crime, child sexual exploitation and county lines in hard to reach areas of Preston funded by Lancashire Police and Crime Commissioner in partnership with Lancashire Violence Reduction Unit.

 

Rose Latham